Are you an internal brow beater? Do you put yourself through the wringer? Give yourself some credit will ya?
I’m definitely guilty of feeling that my “stuff” is inadequate. My ever supportive husband, often pats me on the back for a job well done but my overworked imagination still feels that he does it because he has to.
As an entrepreneur and work-at-home mom/wife, its very easy to look around at the house, at the dinner made, or any number of things and think, “I could do better”.
Ever been there?
I’ve started looking at “my stuff” in general in a whole new light. I’ve stopped the destructive thoughts, and you should too. Let it go. Move on.
If the just do it thinking doesn’t do it for you, here are some more tips.
1. Have a friend look at “your stuff”. Whether you’re an author writing their next book, a web designer who’s working on a new template, or a motivational speaker penning their next gig, ask someone else for their opinion. Don’t ask your spouse, or parent, or anyone else that will leave you thinking they were just being nice for the sake of keeping the peace.
2. Perfection is in itself, an imperfection. Let’s say you’re worried about the kids playing in the living room with their friends because the house is going to get mucked up. You’re going to be seen as a high-handed, controlling mom. Not what you were hoping for was it?
3. Keep a journal – in whatever way works for you – of your accomplishments. Jot down things that turned out well. Refer to it often.
4. Invest in yourself. Whether it is a workshop, book, or seminar – invest in things that are going to develop your talents, strengths and interests.
So there it is. Your challenge for the week. Ease up on yourself. You’ve earned it.
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